We are all *Unique* in our own way, don't let somebody force you into becoming what they want you to become. Again don't live your life to please people or what they say.  Find the spark that always puts a smile on your face.  It is in you,  grab it and let it shine , let it glitter. People will say how awkward  you have become  but when they accept who you really are, the same people  will say how better you have...

When you are told no you can't do it, tell them yes you can do it...